Sunday, October 20, 2013

Barrett's Birth Story

I know I don't blog as often as I used to or maybe I should say I NEVER blog.  I don't see that changing anytime soon, but I did this for the other two boys.  In the days before Barrett arrived, I enjoyed looking back at the day that Drew and Brooks made their appearance.

This 3rd pregnancy was not as easy as the other two.  I didn't have any major complications, but having two very active boys at home made months 7-9 difficult.  I am so grateful that my parents came down on September 29th.  We all thought that Barrett would come early so they decided to come down.  He hung around about a week longer than we expected, but I was glad mom and dad were here to help me in the last week or so.

On Friday October 11th, Hal and I headed out for a date night.  I knew Barrett had dropped more and wondered if he would make it to our scheduled c-section date of October 17th, but he had already hung on longer than the other two boys, so I had resigned myself to the fact that I had another week to go.  We went to a burger place we had been wanting to try near the Galleria and then drove around a bit before heading home.  Around 1:30 I woke up not feeling great and headed to the recliner in the living room to see if I could get comfortable.  I assumed my burger just wasn't settling well, but when the pain I was experiencing continued, I started timing them. The contractions moved from 7 minutes apart and 30 seconds long to 5 minutes apart and 60 seconds long.  I didn't even want to get out of the chair, so I texted Hal in the bedroom and told him I thought it was about time to head to the hospital.  We left the house around 3:30 and headed to Houston.  By the time we got there, I am pretty sure his forearm was bruised from my squeezing it so hard.  They checked us in and started to monitor me.  I knew I was in labor, but was terrified they would send me home.  The nurse assured me I was in active labor and because I was having a 3rd c-section, I wasn't going home. They got my IV in and sent us down to pre-op where I continued to have strong contractions.  I was that crazy lady screaming every 3 minutes telling Hal I couldn't do it and they better get me in the operating room.  I remember hearing the nurse with anaesthesiology use the words "urgent" when they were waiting on paperwork.  I was READY.  Once they got me back and got my epidural in, I was much happier.  Hal came in shortly after and held my hand through the whole thing. The csection was much longer than my other two because of scar tissue and it took them awhile to get Mr. Barrett out, but at 6:35, we heard a strong cry and they lifted him over the sheet.  He looked just like his brothers but with much darker hair.  I was excited that Texas Children's allows a csection momma to get to see the baby go through the initial check.  I was able to watch as Hal stood with the nurse as she weighed him and checked him over good.  He weighted 8lbs. 2oz and was 21 inches long.





After they finished up my surgery, we were taken to a recovery room where I was able to rest a little.  In true Hal and Lindsay fashion, we watched College Game Day together while we waited our two hours in recovery.

They weren't able to get me a room, so the two hour recovery period ended up lasting much longer.  Dad and Mom brought the boys to the recovery room where they met their new brother.  Drew was in love from the moment he saw him.  Brooks on the other hand, just stared at me and Barrett as if he knew that this meant a major change.  After a quick visit, Hal and Dad took the boys home to a babysitter and mom stayed with me.  They moved us to a room around 1:30.
Meeting baby brother for the first time


Sweet Barrett

He is SO proud

All Brooks cared about when he came to visit in the hospital was the ipad/iphone :)



Amazingly, Mr. Barrett Wallace Ramsey is one week old today.  I am feeling a lot better today and starting to feel more like myself.  Barrett seems pretty easy going so far.  My older boys seem to be adjusting well.  My parents have been a huge help.  My husband is amazing and has taken on so much over the last week.  We have been blessed as a family by the calls, texts, visits, and messages we have received to check on our family.

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Sea World

This past weekend we headed to the San Antonio area with some friends of ours.  It was such a fun weekend!  The kids enjoyed Sea World .... having never been we didn't know what to expect.  We really didn't do as many "animal" things as I thought.  The kids really enjoyed the Sesame Street Bay of Play.

Drew was not interested in the rides at first, but he ended up riding one of the biggest/scariest rides!  Hal and I are continuing to learn how to help him face his fears.  Part of it with Drew is just letting him adjust and then he is all in!

More pics of the rest of the weekend to come!


Drew and C ready for Sea World

Of course B strapped himself in and he was ready to go

Checking out the maps :)

Daddy and B

Love this picture of these two


No caption necessary

Drew and C waiting for Elmo show

It took Drew awhile to take his hands of his ears but then he loved it

B was memorized!
Cheering for Shamu



The playland was awesome!

Thank goodness this wasn't our stroller!

Riding Abby's crab ride with dad!

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Scripture & Phone Pics

BSF is about to wrap up for the year and I have already turned my mind toward how I will keep myself in God's word this summer.  I am doing a study on "Calm My Anxious Heart" with our Life Bible Study at church and I have picked up another book that you will see later in this post.  I am excited about both of those, but I wanted to make sure I was still reading the Bible every day.  I have never done a read through the Bible plan, but decided to use my Bible gateway app and give it a try.  I am working to make it the first thing I read every morning.  So far ... so good!

Something unusual jumped out at me this week.  The reading plan started off with the story of David and Bathsheba and then went to the Psalms of repentance.  I was struck by the fact that if you didnt' realize you were in the Old Testament, that you what you were reading could have been out of the New Testament after the death of Christ.  Psalm 86:16 was also something sweet/encouraging/challenging for a mother to read. "Turn to me and have mercy on me; show your strength in behalf of your servant; save me, because I serve you just as my mother did." Oh that my boys would say that of me!  That they would see me as a servant of God!


I have been trying to use my wonderful camera more, but my phone is always so handy.  It seems like the real life pictures are captured on my phone.

 Can you say best daddy ever??? Brooks is determined to go to the top like his brother, but those short little legs just can't get him there by himself, so dad stepped in to help!
 Notice the socks and shoes.  He is crazy about his shoe/sock choice and I couldn't convince him otherwise.
 Mother's day Dinner ... clearly Brooks is not interested in a picture
 Tried again at lunch ... same result.
 How sweet are these two on their last day of BSF????
 Please stop time.  He is so big.  He was excited to sport his shirt for the school he will be starting in the fall.
 One of the books I am reading this summer.
Morning TV time.  Brooks was still for 10 minutes so Drew decided to join the fun.  Love the sweet friendship that is developing between these two.

Monday, May 13, 2013

More Birthday Celebration & Mother's Day

 For the week of their birthday, the boys can pick out a favorite cereal.  Brooks picked Froot Loops with some help from his brother

We had Brooks' party on Monday and then Hal left for Mexico City.  I couldn't just let his actual birthday go by without any fun, so we headed to the Galleria with our friends William and Lauren.  The birthday boy helped "open" the Disney store.

 The also put up this picture on the instore screen and gave him a certificate.  He was a little overwhelmed by all the fuss, but Drew and William thought it was fun.
 We then spent some time in the arcade.  They earned enough tickets for three suckers.
 Hal and I bought Brooks a new water table for his birthday.
 When Hal got home on Friday, we had a little more celebrating to do. 
 This picture cracks me up because Hal and I both look awful! He was worn out from a week of work and I was worn out from back to back weeks of him being out of town!  But we had a fun time celebrating our big boy!



 Opening his present from Drew ... Miss Patty Cake DVD's.
 Presents from Maw Maw and Paw Paw!  One blessed little boy. 


We had a great Mother's day weekend.  We went out to eat Saturday night and then Hal and Drew did a little shopping while Brooks was napping.  Drew was proud of his flowers and balloon.  They also got me perfume.  So spoiled by all three of my boys. 

Thursday, May 09, 2013

Brooks is 2




Really can't believe this little man is 2.  He has changed so much in the last month or so and I am realizing more and more that he is no longer my baby!


  • You LOVE doors, drawers, and anything that latches.  You are content to stand in the car and buckle and unbuckle your carseat.
  • Shoes ... shoes ... shoes.  You love to play with the shoe basket and take them off and on.  You love to wear my shoes which sometimes worries your father.  You also love your rain boots and your brothers cowboy boots.
  • As all siblings are, you are so very different from your brother.  You are fearless and more rough and tumble than your brother is.
  • Speaking of bubba, you love your bubba and love to try and do whatever he is doing.
  • You love your momma, but you are a daddy's boy at heart.  Most weekend mornings you can be found in bed watching "WiWi" aka "Wiggles" with your dada as soon as you wake up.
  • Highchairs and booster seats highly offend you.  You are pretty sure you are way too old to be sitting in one.
  • Playgrounds are nerve wracking for your mother.  You climb quickly to the highest point and insist on going down the highest slide.
  • Your vocabulary is rapidly expanding!  I understand what you want more and more and there is less and less screaming. :)
  • This little piggy, patty cake, Zaccheus, this little light of mine, Wiggles songs, and God is so Good.  You love to sing and clap!
  • Redirecting you is almost impossible! Once you get your mind set on something, you are hard to redirect.  Disciplining you is different than your brother and often laugh at us when we do discipline.
  • You have done wonderful at BSF this year ... even sitting still for Bible Study on occasion.
  • You are so silly and I love that about your personality.
  • Sometimes I think you and your bubba have your own little language and it makes my heart smile to see you two playing and laughing together!

 Happy Birthday my sweet boy!  Praying that this year is full of more adventures and learning.  I am confident that God will use your determination for some great things one day.

You are rarely bruise or scratch free

 You so badly want to ride bubba's bike!